We think we are in control of our lives and our destiny. But are we?
Romanian author Onofrei Cosmin examines this idea in his book Hazard: Change Your Life or Love It Now.
We’re constantly on the road to self-improvement. We think if we read the right self-help book or follow certain rules our lives will get much better. We’ll land the killer job, find long lasting love, and achieve the perfect physique. And once we obtain these things, our lives will be pretty darn perfect.
Hmmm, really?
After a brief introduction, Cosmin goes into further detail of Hazard’s premise in 15 brief, informative chapters.
These chapters go into concepts like using fear to liberate oneself, accepting our destiny, the importance of the company we keep, and how comfort, boundaries, and safety are imperative for a good life.
I’m not sure what to think of this book. At times I found it a bit pretentious and repetitive. It might have worked better as a article or a white paper for a mental wellness journal. There is a chapter called “Love and Hurt” aimed at women and the mistakes the ladies make when it cones to relationships. Hey, what about men? They make plenty of mistakes, too!
Also, I wondered what credentials Cosmin has to act as an authority on such a topic. I couldn’t find one, other than a desire to help people.
And Hazard does indulge in the spiritual, which may bother people who desire something more secular.
However, Hazard does bring up some good points like we’re the company we keep. My life is definitely enriched by my loving friends and family. And it’s better off for kicking some people to the curb.
Despite some of my misgivings, I do believe some people will find solace with Cosmin’s ideas and advice. Cosmin wants to help people find gratitude in their lives. Hazard just might help them do this very thing.
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